Heyhey guys and what's up TFS!?
..........Let's Talk.........
Do you feel as though you could bring more to your relationship? I mean like genuinely offer something that is beyond reasoning or given a shadow of a doubt? Have you ever felt as though, your all just isnt good enough?
If you've answered, YES, to one of these questions then this blog is for you.
Do you know what the word "inadequate" means? I mean to actually be, "inadequate".
Tfs, today I wanted to take the time out to acknowledge our flaws and the things that cause us to have self doubt in our relationships.
Maybe you fear that you lack that, financial support, or being there more not just physically but mentally and or emotionally.
We all have these fears when we start a new relationship, new career, crap even a new book, but have you thought about what this fear can do to you?
Everyone walks around with the same moto some what, "what do you have to bring to the table?" The real question is, how big is table?
We all have those high standards that gets canceled out with those self doubts, that cause us to start feeling inadequate, sooner or later down the line during the relationship.
Unpronounced to ourselves we dont know that this feeling can cause us to react differently towards our spouses, without notice or prior warning.
We tend to push our loved ones away just to baracde our feelings, but why?
One has to understand that the strain of lack of finance or maybe lack of moral support or even lack of confidence, are huge factors in this matter.
TFS, Its not that your, "inadequate" its that your trapped in your mind!
Regardless of your situation, you are free! The only thing causing this feeling is, YOU!
Take a self journey and Embark on finding the real you and then ask yourself again, "do you feel inadequate"?
I challenge you to take a walk at least 3 days a week and just enjoy nature and what makes you happy, sad, frustrated, and so forth. Then I want you to try and pin point positives out of those negatives and change them!
Change starts with in you, and Depression exists my friend.
Knowing the signs before they happen, can may cause you to, find a better you.
Trust me your love ones will thank you later but your younger and older you, will say, "I'm proud" and that's a feeling inadequate can never come from!
Thanks for reading Tfs and remember,
Learn to love yourself before trying to love someone else!
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